This isn’t a rant. It’s a public warning. On 17 July 2025, I discovered that $371.80 AUD had been withdrawn from my bank account by Academia.edu. I had no idea the subscription was still active. I received no warning. No renewal email. No opt-out reminder. And when I contacted their support team to explain the […]
After Academia.edu auto-renewed a $371.80 AUD subscription without notice, I requested a refund. They refused. I’m sharing my full complaint letter publicly to warn others about their deceptive billing practices and refusal to offer support or flexibility. This is a cautionary tale worth reading.
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No one cares
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When to leave
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Sex on shuffle
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Chào Anh, em có một lời đề nghị mong anh xem xét. Mỗi tuần một lần, vào ban ngày, em sẽ đến đón anh và đưa về chỗ em ở (ở P.10). Mình sẽ có một tiếng bên nhau, sau đó em sẽ đưa anh về lại chỗ cũ. Em đang tìm một trải nghiệm […]
Revealing seven uncomfortable realities highly masked neurodivergent adults avoid through work patterns and work avoidance. Discover why your brain uses work as emotional protection, how to recognise these survival strategies, and gentle approaches to building authentic engagement with work, emotions, and relationships
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