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Chร o Anh, em cรณ mแป™t lแปi ฤ‘แป nghแป‹ mong anh xem xรฉt.

Mแป—i tuแบงn mแป™t lแบงn, vร o ban ngร y, em sแบฝ ฤ‘แบฟn ฤ‘รณn anh vร  ฤ‘ฦฐa vแป chแป— em แปŸ (แปŸ P.10). Mรฌnh sแบฝ cรณ mแป™t tiแบฟng bรชn nhau, sau ฤ‘รณ em sแบฝ ฤ‘ฦฐa anh vแป lแบกi chแป— cลฉ.

Em ฤ‘ang tรฌm mแป™t trแบฃi nghiแป‡m thรขn mแบญt vร  gแบงn gลฉiโ€”giแป‘ng nhฦฐ GFEโ€”mร  khรดng cแบงn vแป™i vร ng hay gรฒ bรณ. Anh cรณ thแปƒ nhแป› lร  em dแป… hแปฉng khแปŸi ngay tแปซ ฤ‘แบงu. Vรฌ vแบญy, em mong lร  mรฌnh cรณ thแปƒ bแบฏt ฤ‘แบงu bแบฑng mแป™t khoแบฃnh khแบฏc nhแบน nhร ng, giรบp em giแบฃi tแปa cแบฃm xรบc ban ฤ‘แบงu, ฤ‘แปƒ sau ฤ‘รณ mรฌnh cรณ thแปƒ tแบญn hฦฐแปŸng thแปi gian cรฒn lแบกi bแบฑng nhแปฏng cรกi รดm, sแปฑ ฤ‘แปฅng chแบกm, khรกm phรก cฦก thแปƒ nhau mแป™t cรกch thoแบฃi mรกi vร  dแป… chแป‹u.

Trong lแบงn ฤ‘แบงu tiรชn, em rแบฅt muแป‘n anh mแบทc lแบกi chiแบฟc vรกy ฤ‘en quyแบฟn rลฉ mร  anh ฤ‘รฃ mแบทc khi mรฌnh gแบทp nhau lแบงn ฤ‘แบงu. Mแบทc nรณ cho ฤ‘แบฟn khi em qua ฤ‘ฦฐแปฃc cao trร o ฤ‘แบงu tiรชn, rแป“i sau ฤ‘รณ mรฌnh cรณ thแปƒ cแปŸi ra vร  รดm nhau, da chแบกm da, tแบญn hฦฐแปŸng khoแบฃnh khแบฏc mแป™t cรกch dแป‹u dร ng vร  gแบงn gลฉi.

Em muแป‘n nรณi rรต: em lร  ngฦฐแปi vui vแบป, khรดng phแบฃi ngฦฐแปi u sแบงu. Em lร  ngฦฐแปi tรดn trแปng ngฦฐแปi khรกc, khรดng phแบฃi ngฦฐแปi thiแบฟu lแป‹ch sแปฑ. Em khรดng thรญch ฤ‘au ฤ‘แป›nโ€”dรน lร  tแบกo ra hay chแป‹u ฤ‘แปฑng nรณ. ฤรณ khรดng phแบฃi lร  con ngฦฐแปi em.

Em chแป‰ mong mแป—i lแบงn gแบทp nhau lร  mแป™t khoแบฃng thแปi gian nhแบน nhร ng, vui vแบป, khรดng รกp lแปฑcโ€”cho cแบฃ hai.

Em sแบฝ gแปญi anh 500.000โ‚ซ mแป—i buแป•iโ€”bแบฑng tiแปn mแบทt hoแบทc chuyแปƒn khoแบฃn, tรนy anh chแปn. Mรฌnh sแบฝ tiแบฟp tแปฅc miแป…n lร  cแบฃ hai cรฒn thแบฅy thoแบฃi mรกi vร  vui vแบป vแป›i ฤ‘iแปu ฤ‘รณ.

Em mong sแป›m nghe phแบฃn hแป“i tแปซ anh.

Vแป›i sแปฑ tแปญ tแบฟ vร  chรขn thร nh,
Lee

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