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Business communication Leadership

When dark design deceives

This 1,000-word case study explores how Academia.edu’s silent auto-renewal charged $371.80 AUD without warning—highlighting the dangers of dark patterns in tech design. Learn what dark patterns are, how they manipulate users, and what ethical leadership in digital spaces should look like.

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Business communication Leadership

Academia.edu charged me $371.80 AUD without warning—and refused to refund it

After Academia.edu auto-renewed a $371.80 AUD subscription without notice, I requested a refund. They refused. I’m sharing my full complaint letter publicly to warn others about their deceptive billing practices and refusal to offer support or flexibility. This is a cautionary tale worth reading.

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Anxiety and stress Decision-making Decision-making Leadership Organisations Relationships Social media The power of connection

Academia.edu charged me $371.80 AUD without warning—and refused to refund it

This isn’t a rant. It’s a public warning. On 17 July 2025, I discovered that $371.80 AUD had been withdrawn from my bank account by Academia.edu. I had no idea the subscription was still active. I received no warning. No renewal email. No opt-out reminder. And when I contacted their support team to explain the…

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Anxiety and stress Communication Decision-making Leadership Relationships

Academia.edu charged me $371.80 AUD without warning—and refused to refund it

After Academia.edu auto-renewed a $371.80 AUD subscription without notice, I requested a refund. They refused. I’m sharing my full complaint letter publicly to warn others about their deceptive billing practices and refusal to offer support or flexibility. This is a cautionary tale worth reading.

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Anxiety and stress

No one cares

If you’ve ever mentally replayed a conversation 37 times before breakfast, you’re in good company. Share this with a fellow overthinker who needs the reminder: they’re not being watched. Everyone’s too busy watching themselves

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Relationships

When to leave

Knowing when to leave a relationship can be one of the hardest emotional decisions. This post offers clarity, compassion, and psychological insight for those sitting in uncertainty. If you’ve been questioning, doubting, or aching for peace—this might help you find your answer

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Sexual health

Sex on shuffle

This post explores the natural ebb and flow of sexual desire, challenging performance-based views of sexuality. It offers a grounded, honest look at what it means to embrace both intimacy and intentional celibacy as valid expressions of self-awareness and personal growth

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Dating Diary: Expat emotions and Emotional Intelligence

When RSD strikes in expat dating

A tough day at Đà Lạt’s Aussie Burgers spirals into RSD panic, emotional whiplash, and a surprising matchmaking mission from ‘Đà Lạt Lee’. Mixed signals, money-in-the-rain, and Zalo friend requests collide in this raw, funny diary of expat dating in Vietnam—where nothing is simple, and everything is personal

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Psychology

Chào Anh, em có một lời đề nghị mong anh xem xét. Mỗi tuần một lần, vào ban ngày, em sẽ đến đón anh và đưa về chỗ em ở (ở P.10). Mình sẽ có một tiếng bên nhau, sau đó em sẽ đưa anh về lại chỗ cũ. Em đang tìm một trải nghiệm…

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AuDHD Neurodiversity Psychology

What highly masked adults hide behind work (and how to stop)

Revealing seven uncomfortable realities highly masked neurodivergent adults avoid through work patterns and work avoidance. Discover why your brain uses work as emotional protection, how to recognise these survival strategies, and gentle approaches to building authentic engagement with work, emotions, and relationships