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Psychology Relationships Sexual health

3 obligations women have with sex

“An insecure woman will rarely initiate sex. I’ve been married for almost 34 years and I can count on one hand how many times she has. I’m a good man and I adore her, and she knows this. Now she has cut off both sex and any intimacy. She’s never been that intimate and sex was my only way to experience intimacy. I’ve always made sure she was satisfied before I finished. Resentment is now moving in”

Come on, admit it. You’d rather spend 30 minutes cleaning the oven than having sex with your husband.

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