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5 reasons your husband doesn’t want sex anymore

“I’d rather not even attempt to try to become intimate because of how I feel after getting turned down. I’ll also add that even after coming home from work, and making dinner, or doing other chores, my stay-at-home wife can’t find the time or make the effort to look at me with admiration for putting a roof over our heads, or fixing the car, or working 6 or yes, even 7 days a week? She has managed to gain 150lbs since we got married. Maybe she did that as a means to get me to not engage in intimacy.”

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