{"id":10165,"date":"2025-05-28T01:58:00","date_gmt":"2025-05-27T16:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindblownpsychology.com\/?p=10165"},"modified":"2025-05-28T01:58:00","modified_gmt":"2025-05-27T16:28:00","slug":"understanding-intimacy-challenges-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/leehopkins.com\/vi\/understanding-intimacy-challenges-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Why many marriages become a waste of space"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Physical Intimacy: His NEED is NOT your WEAPON Ladies\" width=\"580\" height=\"326\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NNMrhuIeUEQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Transcript<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">today we are going to talk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:03sex his need ladies not your weapon<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:08let&#8217;s talk about the males and how they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:11need sex now when I say need I truly<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:15mean need it&#8217;s something that&#8217;s inbred<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:17in their DNA it&#8217;s not a want it&#8217;s not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:20something that they get excited about<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:22and want to have everyone so once in a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:24while it is something that helps them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:26function it is something that helps them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:29move feel better it&#8217;s a need for them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:33now Society has made it socially<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:35acceptable for men to be able to do a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:37lot with sex we all know that according<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:40to society a man can be more promiscuous<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:44let&#8217;s just say it out loud a man can be<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:46more promiscuous than a woman he&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:47taught from the time that he&#8217;s a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:49teenager talking to his boys they&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:52talking about girls and then he goes and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:54talks to a grown man or his Uncle his<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:57dad and something like that and they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">0:58tell him to go out and get a bunch of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:02what<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:04sex socially acceptable imprinted in his<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:08DNA now when he chooses to have a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:12girlfriend to have a lady to have a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:15woman to have a wife and you decide that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:19now I love you and I&#8217;m not going to have<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:23sex with you no more ladies you have<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:26just completely jacked up his whole<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:28world he don&#8217;t want understand that why<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:31wouldn&#8217;t you want to give him any why<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:32wouldn&#8217;t you want to have sex some of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:34the reasons that we don&#8217;t want to have<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:36sex is because I&#8217;m mad at him I don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:39want to give him nothing let&#8217;s talk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:41about that so he did something wrong to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:44you and right now you&#8217;re not emotionally<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:47feeling him let&#8217;s even say he apologized<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:50to you in his eyes his apology meant<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:53that he squashed it he apologized and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:56you said that you forgive him but yet<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">1:58you still don&#8217;t want to be intimate with<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:01your man notice I say your man because<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:03this is your man right that you don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:06want to share your body with that he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:09needs to have to feel valuable to feel<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:12accepted it&#8217;s a form of acceptance to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:15him when his woman chooses to have sex<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:18with him when she chooses to want to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:21have sex with him so now you&#8217;re saying<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:25I&#8217;m mad I&#8217;m emotionally not there well<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:28ladies I just want to tell you you need<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:29to get together you need to emotionally<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:31get your connection back together<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:33because at this particular point it&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:34not him it&#8217;s you he said I&#8217;m sorry you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:38said you forgave him so now what&#8217;s the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:40problem the longer you hold on to not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:42giving him sex the longer you&#8217;re putting<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:46a separation between you two because sex<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:49is a form of communication it&#8217;s a form<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:51of communication that draws him closer<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:53to you that draws you closer to him he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:56needs it it&#8217;s a way that he talks to you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">2:59it&#8217;s a releaser for him stresses we<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:03never know what our men go through in<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:05any given day they&#8217;re not going to tell<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:07us everything so when he comes in and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:09he&#8217;s stressed and you can just see the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:12stress on him or he&#8217;s quiet he&#8217;s drawn<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:14back sometimes you might be able to help<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:17him you might be able to help release<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:20what he has going on ever thought about<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:23it like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:24that hey guys it&#8217;s your girl Melanie I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why women withhold sex<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:27came across this video and I I like this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:29woman cuz she&#8217;s just giving straight up<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:31real talk to women and and she laid it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:35out a lot of women withhold sex from<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:39their husband because they&#8217;re upset with<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:42him because they&#8217;re they they feel like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:45he&#8217;s done something or they&#8217;re holding<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:46grudges or they&#8217;re holding resentment<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:48even if he says he&#8217;s sorry even if he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:50doesn&#8217;t say that he&#8217;s sorry you know how<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:53many things you do to him or things that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:55he doesn&#8217;t like but you still expect him<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:57to fulfill his husband duties you still<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">3:59expect him to go to work you still<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:01expect him to help with housework you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:03still expect him to uh to um to provide<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:07for the household and you still expect<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:10him to be faithful to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:12you even if he&#8217;s upset with you but<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:14somehow we justify in our minds that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:17it&#8217;s okay to withhold sex a biological<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:20need for our husband when we feel like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:23it we we feel like it we weaponize it we<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:26use it as punishment and you may say<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:28well if if he makes me feel a certain<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:30way if he makes me upset I&#8217;m just not in<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:32the mood I just can&#8217;t get there I just I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:34don&#8217;t feel safe that that&#8217;s the one now<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:37I don&#8217;t feel safe I don&#8217;t feel safe they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:40will act like their husband is is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:42abusing them because of of of all a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:46thousand different reasons it&#8217;s always<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:48an excuse but it&#8217;s not all these men in<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:50Mass abusing their wives and and that&#8217;ll<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:53be justified you not having sex with<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:55that man and honestly if you&#8217;re getting<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:57physically abused most women this isn&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">4:59even on discussion you&#8217;re trying to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:01leave you&#8217;re trying to figure this out<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:03if you do withhold won&#8217;t won&#8217;t he get<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:05more violent won&#8217;t he get hurt you more<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:07like it it&#8217;s illogical women use it as a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:11manipulation tactic and we know it all<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:13the time and women may say well I can&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:15help how I feel I can&#8217;t help what I want<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:17to do well then when he feels like when<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:19he cheats he can&#8217;t help how he feels he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:22can&#8217;t he&#8217;s not in control of what he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:24feels same same excuse you&#8217;re using and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:28you say you&#8217;re saying it&#8217;s okay to cheat<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:30are you saying it&#8217;s okay to uh withhold<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:33sex in your marriage and that&#8217;s okay<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:35guys sorry if you hear banging and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:37you&#8217;re hearing noise they&#8217;re doing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:39construction and I&#8217;m about to lose my<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:41mind just ignore it just ignore it okay<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:44so so it&#8217;s the same thing but women<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:47don&#8217;t equate it as the same thing they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:49think somehow that they are justified in<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:52their actions but men aren&#8217;t that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:54they&#8217;re justified in holding resentment<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:55and therefore withholding sex and and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">5:59but the man is not justified if he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:01withholds something or or he takes it a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:03you know a certain type of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:05stance and so you&#8217;ve got to think about<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:07it that way but a lot of women don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:09care a lot of women just think well this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:11is the way I feel and if he you know<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:13they don&#8217;t care about the consequences<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:15they don&#8217;t care about losing that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:16marriage they don&#8217;t care about losing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:17their husband and this is where a lot of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:19husbands are going to start thinking is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:20it worth it what you&#8217;re going through<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:22sex being with hell from you and it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:24being weaponized against you are you you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:27that really is a form of abuse that is a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:29form of abuse and a lot of women think<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:32that they are Justified and they don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:33think it&#8217;s abuse but it is it&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Is it worth it<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:35empowering to him ladies it can make him<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:38feel like he can go out and conquer the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:41world helping him start his day end his<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:44day middle of the day however you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:48feel do<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:50it go out and do it let him know you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:53love him in the way that he needs to be<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:56loved let him know that you his one<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">6:59woman care for him in the way that he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:02naturally embeded in his DNA needs to be<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:05loved it&#8217;s not a weapon for you to hold<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:08on to and you&#8217;re going to give it to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:09them and you&#8217;re going to ration it out<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:11when you want to that won&#8217;t end up<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:14ending the way that you think it will<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Im tired<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:17now let&#8217;s talk second point I&#8217;m tired I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:20got the kids I got work I got this I got<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:25church I got<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:27that understandable<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:29I got two kids myself run a whole<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:32business I get tired but I made a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:35commitment to love somebody I made a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:39commitment that I want a loving<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:41relationship so in my commitment of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:44having a loving relationship I have to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:46communicate love in the form of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:49intimacy if I&#8217;m tired or not now I don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:53know about you but I heard that sex when<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:57you actually have it the connection in<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">7:59itself gives you energy it gives you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:02life so you may start tired but once you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:05get into the ACT oh you going to feel a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:07whole lot better now mind you don&#8217;t get<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:10into it and just give them uh I think I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:12heard lazy<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:13booty lazy booty men can tell they don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:17really want it they&#8217;ll take it cuz it&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:20probably been like something stupid like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:22two weeks to a month since you&#8217;ve<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:24actually done it but ladies it shouldn&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:26be that long I think men have about a 3<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:29day span where they just get to the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:31point where they&#8217;re irritated now they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:34frustrated I&#8217;ve even seen me whole<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:36personality change cuz they ain&#8217;t got<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:38none you can kind of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:40tell 3day span is the longest that you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:43should be going without loving on your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:45man and hear me say loving on your man<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:49cuz it&#8217;s a form of love for him again<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:52communication empowering you&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:55accepting him his lady wants to have sex<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">8:58with him there&#8217;s nothing nothing bigger<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:00to a man than a woman that actually<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:02desires him that wants to be with him<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:05you all complain about men looking at<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:09other women or men getting excited when<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:11another woman looks at him she&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:14Desiring him she&#8217;s showing him he&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:16accepted she&#8217;s wanting him are you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:20wanting him are you Desiring him are you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:23showing him that you love him in the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:25form of intimacy because you can&#8217;t get<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:27mad at him for something that you&#8217;re not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:28doing you can&#8217;t get mad at him because<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:30you&#8217;re claiming that you always tired<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:32and he go out and get that from<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:35somewhere else now mind you I&#8217;m not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:37condoning him going somewhere else I&#8217;m<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:39just helping you come to grips with how<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:41you&#8217;re helping cause that and how you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:45can fix it it&#8217;s really simple you love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:47him anyway right so this point hits home<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:50so much for so many women<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:52because can these people stop banging<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:55please please this is home for so many<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">9:58reasons because so so many women they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:00would just use well I&#8217;m tired I got this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:02to do and that to do and I got the kids<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:03and I got this and I got that and they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:05blame all of this there&#8217;s always these<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:07external factors as to why they can&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:09contribute to their marriage and then<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:10they wonder why their marriage are deter<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:12is deteriorating why they&#8217;re not happy<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:13why their husband isn&#8217;t pouring into<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:15them why the husband isn&#8217;t acting like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:17he&#8217;s in love with them anymore why he&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:18not doing the same thing he did when<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:20they were dating how come he&#8217;s not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:21dating me anymore well you&#8217;re not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:23sleeping with him the way you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:25were stop lying once you get that ring<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:28you feel comfortable you feel secure you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:29feel like you don&#8217;t have to do those<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:31things you prioritize everything else<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:33above your marriage above your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:34relationship and wonder why you&#8217;re not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:36happy wonder why you feel unfulfilled<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:38wonder why things are not working and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:40you shift all the blame on to him him<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:42him and you take no personal<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:44accountability to what you&#8217;re doing and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:46how you&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:47contributing everybody&#8217;s busy everybody<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:50has a lot to go on L lot to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:52do it&#8217;s not an excuse to be tired that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:56is a once in a while<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">10:59okay where you you really are physically<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:01to the point where you can&#8217;t you are too<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:03tired if you need to you need better<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:05time management you need a better<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:07schedule you need to maybe maybe you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:08even need a sex schedule where it is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:11expected where it&#8217;s part of your routine<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:13it is like taking a shower brushing your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:15teeth this is a need this is a critical<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:18need one of the most if not the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:20important most important critical need<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:23of your marriage okay guys I was<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Too tired<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:25interrupted because my dad came over for<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:27a second and I lost my train of thought<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:31but the conclusion was that being you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:33know seeing that you&#8217;re too tired you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:35need to figure out what is going on with<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:37you it could be a medical issue that you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:39need to get resolved whether you&#8217;re not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:41taking care of yourself having enough<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:44vitamins if you&#8217;re not um have you&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:46not hydrated enough if you&#8217;re not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:48exercising I know a lot of women do not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:50exercise and so yes as you age you can<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:53do that when you&#8217;re young not exercis<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:55and still have energy but if you&#8217;re not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:57if you&#8217;re not disciplined in your eating<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">11:59and in your exercise and taking care of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:01your body yes it&#8217;s going to break down<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:03you&#8217;re going to be tired more often we<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:06prioritize what we care about we<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:08prioritize what we love it is not an<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:11excuse and so if you are tired that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:13don&#8217;t that doesn&#8217;t absorve you of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:15anything and it&#8217;s almost become a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:16running joke even on shows and in uh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:19movies or you know oh she&#8217;s got a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:21headache oh she&#8217;s tired tonight I forget<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:24which sitcom was it was it love and was<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:27it um Love and Marriage what is it the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:29Al Bundy I can&#8217;t remember the name of it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:31I&#8217;m married with kids and I know that is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:33not a good example of marriage but I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:34just remember those like kind of sitcoms<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:36it was always kind thrown in there and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:38the man was always begging for sex and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:40the wife was always too tired and it&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:42always been a Trope it&#8217;s always been a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:44meme it&#8217;s always been this joke that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:46that a woman uses that weaponizes that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:49so that her husband doesn&#8217;t get any and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:51they don&#8217;t understand the rejection that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:53that makes their husband feel women feel<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:56rejected if their husband is looking at<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">12:57other women or if he was to uh like a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:00woman&#8217;s pictures on on on Instagram or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:03if he was to look at porn they feel like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:05oh what does that mean about me I mean<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:07he doesn&#8217;t love me and all this other<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:09stuff but they don&#8217;t think about the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:10rejection they make him feel when they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:12don&#8217;t want to have sex with him for<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:14these thousands of excuses that they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:16have and they normalize it it wasn&#8217;t an<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:18issue when you were single you were<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:20ready to give it up all the time but now<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:22that you have kids and all of that you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:24can&#8217;t have sex you know how many women<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:25have children are still having sex with<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:27their husband you it&#8217;s not an excuse for<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:29you just be because you have kids that&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:32a not natural biological process of a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:34woman women still have sex after they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:37have children I bet if you were divorced<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:39and back on these streets and Chad and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:41Tyrone were knocking on your door you&#8217;d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:43be ready to give it up which we see a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:44lot of women get divorced and run back<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:46to the streets and then they&#8217;re they&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:48they&#8217;re they&#8217;re getting ran through by<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:49all these different men and they seem to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:51have plenty of energy for sex at that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:53time but not within the sanctity of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:55their own marriage last but not least<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sympathy sex<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">13:57let&#8217;s talk simp sympathy sex that&#8217;s my<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:01name for it I made it up I&#8217;mma call it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:03sympathy sex sympathy sex is when you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:06really don&#8217;t feel like it really don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:08want to and you just lay in the bed do<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:13whatever who wants to be also known as<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:16starfist sex lazy sex you know<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:19friendzone sex basically a lot of men<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:22have been permanently friend zone within<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:24their marriage and they have to beg<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:26control convince manipulate and do<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:28everything they can to get some sex but<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:30there&#8217;s no true desire for that man and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:33the woman really doesn&#8217;t put in effort<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:35she&#8217;s not doing all the tricks and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:36things that she tried to do when they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:38were single or younger or when they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:39first got together you know cuz she has<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:42him now she doesn&#8217;t have to impress him<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:43anymore she does she doesn&#8217;t have to do<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:45all those things to blow his mind and so<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:48now it&#8217;s just oh okay let&#8217;s get it over<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:50with you know you&#8217;re being lazy you know<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:52you&#8217;re this is sympathy sex it&#8217;s just<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:54like you feel like okay well I guess he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">14:57keeps asking let me just shut him up but<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:00desire like that you don&#8217;t even want to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Desire<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:02be desired like that you don&#8217;t want him<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:05to do something like that to you so why<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:07would you do that to him he can tell<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:10ladies we may be more emotionally<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:12connected but that&#8217;s their language most<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:15of the men if you were to give them the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:18quiz on the five love languages all of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:20them have sex they have something else<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:24but all of them probably<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:2795% have sex as a love language physical<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:31touch touching rubbing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:34caressing sex intimacy it&#8217;s important so<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:38sympathy sex you can keep<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:41it it&#8217;s not even necessary do it and I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:45know a lot of women who they will give<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:47their husband sympathy sex and then they<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:48wonder why their husband Strays or goes<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:50outside the marriage and they don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:53understand the desire even the woman<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:54doesn&#8217;t have to even look better than<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:56you I hear this all the time like he&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:58just Che he cheated with somebody that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">15:59looks better and I&#8217;m not saying this is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:01always the case but a lot of times even<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:03if the woman doesn&#8217;t look better she&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:05showing genuine desire for him someone<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:07who wants him you know someone who needs<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:10him who who is showing interest<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:12something that he hasn&#8217;t had from you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:14and forever and you think that&#8217;s okay<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:16that marriage protects you that you no<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:18longer have to desire your husband he he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:20just becomes a utility something to be<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:22used to take care of the bills do things<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:24in the house run errands give you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:27companionship take care of the kids like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:29he&#8217;s just used there&#8217;s not there&#8217;s you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:32know how many men don&#8217;t get compliments<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:34how many men aren&#8217;t aren&#8217;t told that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:36they look nice or or given any type of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:39affection and so when you withdraw as<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:41his wife from giving compliments giving<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:43him affection that need that he has<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:46doesn&#8217;t go away he&#8217;s going to get it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:48somewhere else and the only person to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:50blame if if if your husband steps<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:52outside the marriage is yourself if this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:55is what you&#8217;re doing and you say why<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:57cheat you should just leave oh so he can<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">16:59get raped over the coals by your angry<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:01ass in divorce court and then you try to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:03take his kids and then you want to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:04weaponize you know act like he did<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:07something to you and he&#8217;s going to he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:09can lose everything for a lot of times<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:11it&#8217;s cheaper to keep her at least until<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:12the kids get older or he doesn&#8217;t want to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:14hurt his kids he doesn&#8217;t want to destroy<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:16their family your family unit or he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:19still loves you he&#8217;s just got to get his<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:21need met somewhere and you have refused<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:23to do it and there&#8217;s nothing and you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:25don&#8217;t prioritize it you don&#8217;t care you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:27don&#8217;t care how it makes him feel and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:29even when you do give it to him it&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:31subpar it&#8217;s dry it&#8217;s it&#8217;s just Dusty so<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:35yeah women you know throwing want to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:37throw it back on him of course he&#8217;s who<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:40wouldn&#8217;t want that desire who wouldn&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:42want to be desired in that way or even<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:44if it&#8217;s not that he&#8217;d rather pay for it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:46if it&#8217;s just the functional need of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:48getting it because at least even the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:49prostitute that he&#8217;s paying she&#8217;s going<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:51to pretend like she likes it she&#8217;s going<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:52to pretend like she wants it even if he<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:54knows he has to pay for<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:56it it&#8217;s just the way it works do it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">17:59better and I&#8217;m not going to say don&#8217;t do<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Get Cute<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:00it at all cuz you need to do it just do<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:03it better get cute we all we get all<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:06dainty and cute to go out in public and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:10look at the world and you come home you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:13roll your hair up you put on bonnets you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:16put on big old pajamas and all this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:19stuff cuz you want to be comfortable but<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:22you&#8217;re at home with the person that you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:25love what&#8217;s cute to him now negl and all<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:29of that wonderful stuff isn&#8217;t what every<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:31man wants all the time some people like<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:34it nice cute and relaxed some cute<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:36little boy shorts a gown that&#8217;s form<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:38fitting wife beater and some<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:41shorts your primary person to be cute<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:44for is not the ladies out on the street<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:46it&#8217;s your man at home that&#8217;s the person<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:50that you&#8217;re supposed to be cute for so<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:52therefore when you&#8217;re cute for him he&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:55looking at you you&#8217;re looking at him<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:58that keeps way and helps with the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">18:59sympathy sex now he desires you so that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:02helps with your emotions and wanting to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:04give it to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:05him keep the sympathy sex ladies it&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:08not something you want to do now let&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:10talk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:11assignments I&#8217;ve had some ladies that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:14have went a week two<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:17weeks one girl had even went a month po<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:20baby and I know some people have gone<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:22even longer without giving their man any<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:24form of<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:25intimacy that&#8217;s unacceptable m M<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:29unacceptable what did I do I told them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:32that they needed to go on a sexathon<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:35what&#8217;s a sexathon get ready so it&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:39really simple all you have to do is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:42every day for the next seven days have<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:46intimacy with your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:47man<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:49sex seven days every day and if you have<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:54enough time do it twice a day now if you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:58have haven&#8217;t done it in a long time<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">19:59you&#8217;re going to shock him he&#8217;s not even<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:01going to know what&#8217;s going on he&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:02definitely going to think it&#8217;s a trick<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:04there but what it&#8217;s going to do is it&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:05going to help bring your connection back<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:09it&#8217;s going to help relax him and get you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:12all back<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:14Connected I had a couple the husband<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:17called me and told me thank you Maddie<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:21he needed it I talked to her their<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:24relationship was aund times better<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:27because she just chose to to share<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:28herself with her husband the man that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:31she committed to love all her life that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:33she had been mad at and I&#8217;m not going to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:36do anything which wasn&#8217;t helping her at<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:38all so that&#8217;s your assignment ladies if<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:41you love your man you want to keep your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:44man you want to fix your relationship<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:46trust me he&#8217;s seen this video and he is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:48agreeing with me a th% go on a sexathon<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:51and then email me and tell me what<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:54happened so yeah and I agree with that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Reality<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:57and there&#8217;s even even a challenge I I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">20:59forget what what book it&#8217;s called but<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:00it&#8217;s a 30-day one um and it&#8217;s actually<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:03initiated by a church or a pastor or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:05something like that for couples but<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:07women you&#8217;ve got to get back into it and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:10this is what the reality is the reality<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:12is ladies if you&#8217;re married and you have<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:14children you&#8217;re older let me tell you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:16something your marriage falls apart<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:18there&#8217;s nothing for you on the streets<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:20you&#8217;re going to get down pipe<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:22down you&#8217;re going to become a ski<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:23receptacle in these streets women who<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:25are young and single and child<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:28cannot get a man to commit to them I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:31don&#8217;t know why women think that they&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:33going to come out of a marriage listen<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:36let&#8217;s be honest you look worse than what<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:38you did when you were in your 20s before<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:40you had children and at age you look<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:43worse you hav&#8217;t prior you don&#8217;t even if<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:45you are healthy and in shape you still<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:47look worse you&#8217;re still older you still<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:49have more baggage you still have a track<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:52record of what you did you know that you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:54of of you probably left your marriage<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:56because you&#8217;re unhappy men know these<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:58things and they&#8217;re not going to want to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">21:59commit to you if think about this when<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:03you if it&#8217;s either your marriage or the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:05streets and I promise you if you feel<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:07upset now if you feel resentful now if<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:10you feel emotionally not you know your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:12emotions aren&#8217;t being cared for now if<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:14you feel like you&#8217;re not being wh and Dy<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:16now go to the streets I promise you I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:22promise<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:23you you have no idea what you&#8217;re in<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:26store for please do not listen to to the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:28anecdotal stories or the anecdotal<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:30situation you see on social media where<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:32a woman leaves her husband and now she&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:34married to this rich guy or this this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:36guy that&#8217;s really romantic and she has<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:38the best husband ever that&#8217;s not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:40happening that&#8217;s not happening for<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:42single women I don&#8217;t know why women<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:44romanticized leaving their husband and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:46that the there&#8217;s going to be this warm<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:48embrace of the streets yes the streets<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:50will embrace you but no man is going to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:52embrace you no man is going to love you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:54or your children the way that the way<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">22:57that your husb husband does now are<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:00there things that he needs to work on<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:01yes but are there we the world always<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:04talks about men needs to fix this men<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:06need to do this men need to do that what<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:07do you need to do you need to understand<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:10as well the consequences that are out<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:12here for you you don&#8217;t have to believe<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:14me but look at the countless videos on<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:17YouTube specifically don&#8217;t be on Tik Tok<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:21just listening to these women I&#8217;m single<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:23I&#8217;m chalous I&#8217;m divorced three times and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:25I still got men fighting for me right<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:29go to the compilation videos here on<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:31YouTube of showing woman after woman<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:34being lonely sad why did I get divorced<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:37why did this happen why this why that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:39the what how the how it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:43runs wreckage on their mental<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:46health and any men that you&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:48experiencing this in your marriage show<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:50this video to your wife yeah I was doing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:52the little head gestures and being funny<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:54in this but this is critical this is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:56life-saving information because I&#8217;m<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">23:58telling you right now the streets will<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:00destroy you more than you even imagined<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:03what is they could any any heartbreak or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:06sadness you are feeling in your marriage<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:08and withdrawal from your husband I<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:11promise you the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:12streets it is so cold there&#8217;s no words<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:15for it it is so sad what is happening<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:20now and so many women were lied to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:22they&#8217;re watching Real Housewives they&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:23watching Tik Tok they&#8217;re on Facebook and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:26amen and high five each other in this<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:28emotional circle jerk of The Sisterhood<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:30they&#8217;re not listening and really seeing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:32the data I see the data I do this for a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:35living day in and day out and I am<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:37telling you there is no hope in the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:39streets for you you are used up you are<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:42older you have<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:44children you you and then you&#8217;re going<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:46to go out and probably raise your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:47standard a man that you would want to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:50raise your standard to he has options<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:52plenty of options that are not you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:54they&#8217;re younger than you better looking<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:55than you and they don&#8217;t have children<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">24:59and if just look at those compilations<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:01look at the struggle it is for single<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:03women right now on the streets the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:04struggle it is for divorced women on the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:07streets and I promise you you need to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:09put everything you can into saving your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:11marriage making your marriage work and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:13giving your husband<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:16sex because even as though you don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:18want your husband or you feel a certain<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:20way about your husband I promise you if<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:22he&#8217;s a good man women will be wanting to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:24snatch him up and keep in mind not just<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:26Western women your husband you and your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:29husband get divorced most likely he&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:30going to become a passport bro visiting<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:33countries where women are more<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:34traditional and there&#8217;ll be more than<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:36happy to service your husband and and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:38and want to be wied up by<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:40him you don&#8217;t have those options you are<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:43depreciating asset men appreciate in age<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:47especially with their earning power and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:49women in especially around the world<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:51from less um economically viable Nations<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:54that these women are smart a lot of them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:56have degrees a lot these are are not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:57stupid women so before you want to go<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">25:59into this thing they just they just want<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:01they just looking for a sandwich so<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:03they&#8217;ll do anything for a man that&#8217;s not<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:04what we&#8217;re talking about we&#8217;re talking<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:06about women who actually are have<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:08probably more degrees than you women who<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:10speak multiple languages intelligent<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:11women but they come from traditional<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:14backgrounds and they come from a a a a a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:17country an environment a a culture that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:20would could not fathom withholding sex<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:22from a man they&#8217;re younger than you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:26childless your husband has the world as<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:29his option you as a western woman most<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:32likely overweight or most likely looking<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:34old most likely having kids you don&#8217;t<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:37have these options out there so you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:39better make it work and you better put<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:41it on that man like you never have and<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:43you need to do it as often as you can<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:45because that not only you know that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:47keeps the bond of the marriage that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:49keeps the intimacy there and it also<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:51makes that man feel wanted and desired<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:53by you and rebuilds and rekindles that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:55love if you going going through and then<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">26:57a sexless situation or you think that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:00the grass is going to be green on the<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:01other side you know what and that&#8217;s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:03where you are then you need to just<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:04leave your marriage and stop abusing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:05sexually abusing your husband which is<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:07what you&#8217;re doing you&#8217;re abusing<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:10him and you&#8217;re trifling and you&#8217;re<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:12selfish and you deserve what the streets<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:14are going to give you and I promise you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:16it&#8217;s going to be a cold cold cold life<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:18for<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:19you so you have a choice to make but to<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:22keep a person in limbo and to keep<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:24torturing sexually torturing this man<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:27because because you won&#8217;t address your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:28issues because you don&#8217;t want to take<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:29accountability because you don&#8217;t think<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:31you need to give anything to your<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:33husband you you are you are in the wrong<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:37and I&#8217;m telling you this as a woman get<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">27:40it 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